The Process
A Journey You Take Together
The Butterfly Project is designed to be simple, honest, and deeply meaningful. Here's what the path looks like — from your first reflection to a stronger foundation.
Take the Readiness Assessment
Begin with our thoughtfully designed assessment — about 15 minutes of honest reflection on your relationship, your values, and your vision for the future. Ideally, each partner completes it individually. If your partner is unwilling or unable to participate, you can still take it on your own and meet with your coach for a one-on-one review.
Start the SurveyReview Your Results — Together with Your Coach
After completing the survey, you'll meet with your coach in a dedicated 1:1 session ($300) to walk through your results. This conversation surfaces your areas of alignment, your growth edges, and what the path forward looks like. Your $300 investment applies toward the full program if you choose to continue.
Begin the 5-Week Program
If the full program feels right, your $300 review session is credited toward the $1,000 program investment. Over five weeks, you and your partner work through guided coaching sessions focused on the areas where your relationship has the most room to grow — communication, conflict, values, and shared vision.
Commit with Clarity
By the end of the program, you'll have had the conversations most couples avoid, built real tools for navigating hard moments, and arrived at your commitment with eyes wide open — and hearts fully ready.
Common Questions
What to Expect
Who is this program for?
The Butterfly Project is for couples who are seriously considering a lifelong commitment — whether that's engagement, marriage, or a deeply intentional partnership. If you're asking 'are we ready?', this program is for you.
What does the program cost?
The readiness survey is free. The follow-up results review session with your coach is $300 — and that investment applies toward the full 5-week program, which is $1,000 total. So if you continue, you're only paying an additional $700.
What if my partner won't take the assessment?
You can still move forward on your own. One person taking the assessment is enough to begin — your coach can review your results with you individually and help you gain clarity about your relationship and what you need, regardless of where your partner is in the process.
How long does the program take?
The readiness assessment takes about 15 minutes. The full 5-week program includes your results review session plus several coaching sessions spread across five weeks, working through your relationship's growth areas at a meaningful pace.
What if we discover we're not ready?
That's not a failure — it's wisdom. Knowing where you need to grow before you commit is one of the most loving things you can do for your relationship. The program gives you a path forward, not a verdict.
Ready to Begin?
The survey is the first step. It costs nothing but honesty — and it could change everything.